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Unemployed people are in crisis! President we need answers, "is this Unemployment Income Grant is going to initialized? Or it is just a promised as usuall We really need to know the truth. Let me clarified R350 is not enough but it is coming to an end this month we need answers from SASSA because there is a lot of mistakes in the way they use to process payments. Some yes they don't give pay dates even when they approved payment. How long are we going to suffers? Because job creation is not going to close the gap of R350 SRD Grant that is ending soon at the end of this month. People need this money because is the only source of income they have right now! Is better if you pull up your sock's President because Election Day is coming we don't know who is or are going to vote against you! Is all up to you
In South Africa poor people have suffered a lot during this COVID-19 attacks People lost their Jobs also have to suffer the consequence. The covid-19 Relief Funds is not enough. R350 is not helping if you have lot of commitment like us. It seems like those who are in Government positions are thinking about themselves not us poor people. They only need us when is time to vote after that they drive their fancy cars and moved far away from us like we have incurable disease. Come back from the Flying Zone and see those who are suffering they need you!
UMqheleBL Holdings shut down the streets of Germiston with massive Maskandi event
A newly established consulting agency called UMqheleBL Holdings shut down the streets of Germiston Extension 9 kwaMashiya yesterday the 11th of April with a massive Maskandi talent search event. The agency was founded back in 2020 by Bheki Khumalo who's an actor and poet, he performed a lot in theaters alongside the veteran actor Mbongeni Ngema.
The event was meant to help uprising Maskandi artists to gain recognition in the public eye. Lusanda Khumalo, the son of the late King of Maskandi Mgqumeni graced them with his presence. The residents all gathered to show their support and purchased the CDs of those who were performing. Everyone was at ease seeing presence of the SAPS as that assured them that the event was carefully planned and they would be safe.
Bheki Khumalo and his colleagues Bongani Ngonyama and Sithabile Buthelezi showed gratitude to their Silent Partner Ntombenhle Msimango whose investment helped to put together the event. Ntombenhle is slowly building herself in the public eye as she's an author, poetess, actress and motivational speaker. Currently she owns two companies, INgwekazi Writing Services under which she wrote and published a book for the famous Inyanga Dr Khehlelezi titled The Untold Story of Ubunyanga with Dr Khehlelezi. She also owns Enhle M Business Solutions under which she created the UMqheleBL Holdings pty Ltd app which is available for download on Google Playstore.
Magolide, Marcavela, Mqansa, Phalamende, Mkhiqi drove the audience crazy with their stage presence and kept them asking for more. Below are some of the pictures taken from the event.
I started officially dating this girl AIDRIEL on the 6 August 2019 we dated for 10 months which I suffered mentally, physical , emotional and financial abuse. We often talk about violence against women but no one thinks or speak about the violence that happens to men. It’s been 10 months of all the abuse I endured and because I loved her I stayed in a relationship as such.
Our relationship began as friends in April 2019 within two months we started dating we used to spend hours talking on the phone she would messaging me 24/7 and I had to call her immediately. This was a everyday routine and it began with the minute I sat down with my friends to have breakfast and I would have to leave the table immediately. If I didn’t call within 2 seconds she would get very angry at me. We had a very intimate relationship Soon as our relationship developed which happened very fast she insisted I pick her up every day. If I had anything else planed or if there was a delay in my response she would become so angry and start fighting with me saying “if I didn’t want to see her I shouldn’t bother coming or calling her”. Every day I would drive to pick her up which took 45 minutes and we would go out spend the day and doing all she would chose to do beginning with breakfast shopping lunch and then dinner and ice cream droping her at 9:30pm at home and me driving all the way back home at night. She would still speak to me while I drove home but by the time I half way home she would get so angry due to the cell phone signal interruptions being cut off few times she would send me messages swearing at me and blocking me. I would get home and sit in my porch in tears at night trying to get her to answer me. Or speak to me.
In the first month of our relationship she had me take a Telkom contract on my name which she promised to pay but never did I always asked her and she would fight saying I made you my boyfriend and you can’t even pay for it. As time went during those month every second week of the month the internet would be used up and she would ask me to check and I would tell her 40 gigs is finished and she would ask me to top it up. The monthly bill which was supposed to be R300 would end up being R650 -800
We always had to do things, go places and staying over at hotels every second week which she kept insisting we do.
I would drive which took me 45 mints to get to her every day and insisted. I take her to work weekends, I would pick her and go for breakfast and buy her lunch still and then drop her off at work in umhlanga as a online tutor than drive all the way back to home which was 45min. I had to than pick her up at 5pm and before dinner she would want to go shopping where I had to buy make up, clothes and so on. As two months passed I saw how addicted to shopping shopping she was. One day while shopping after spending R3000 Rand on her buying clothes make up and shoes she saw a top which she liked and wanted it, I looked at her with amazement knowing how much we just had spent. she began saying loudly inside Edgars “if you can’t buy it I will call another guy to buy it for me and take me home” I was shocked and embarrassed by than I had seen her few times chatting to other guys claiming they are her friends and she would never let me see her phone which I was beginning to notice the messages when she left her phone few times unattended to.
The first time was when we stayed over at a hotel one guy phoned her and fought with her because she chose to date me and she broke down and asked me to leave the room. I sat over an hour outside eventually going in to and found her still crying on the phone I told her I’m leaving and would pick her in the morning and she insisted I stayed and ended that conversation with that guy. A month later another guy who kept phoning her and asking her for her pictures she claimed he is just a friend he would call her and she didn’t tell me until one day while staying with me during her exam week she was studying on the couch and I was busy working on my laptop at the table noticed her busy smiling at her phone so I got up to make coffee and offered her coffee and she got angry saying “I’m disturbing her”. I went to turn the kettle on went to the toilet came back found her on a call at 11:45 – 12pm talking to this guy I asked who was it and she just said a friend I insisted to which friend and then tells me his name and it was the same guy who always persisted her to send him her pictures. It turned into an argument she defending this guy which she only met once.
During these months of dating she used verbal words and I have them still on my phone of every conversation which she would send me messages. I hated vulgar language and she would swear at me. Every time when we weren’t staying to gather she would message me with just one word “call” and I would call her even if at night. We would be on the call for five hours and she would even fall asleep and I if stopped talking she would wake up and fight why I stopped or if the call dropped she would think I cut the call. There were several instances where I had to be up at 6 am because of what my job requirements are and I would still be on the call till 5 am in the morning. (Which I have screenshots showing her till what time I was on the call)
She never wanted me to speak or come inside her family’s house who did know who I was. Always saying “they are bad people and don’t like anyone coming there”. Every single fight we had was because of what she did and I always apologized for getting angry but she was to busy looking at all what I didn’t do for her. I would spend money everyday on her and when somethings wrong I take her to the doctors even if she feels slightes thing stuck in her throat from eating breakfast another example being the time she developed a rash on her neck and she could stop scratching her head and neck. We went to different doctors who told her different things even to the point where one doctor told her its psoriasis which she cried heavily about going to the next doctor to be referred to the skin specialist who discovered she had nitz and lice. I remember going back to my apartment and washing and shampooing her hair for 3 hours.. I really loved her and went through all of this abuse because I loved her so much.
few days before my birthday and she told me she want to buy me something and we need to go to the mall and I said ok when we shopped she found shoes a dress and so on for her which I paid like always and then saying to let her go alone while I go have coffee she wants to buy me something but then asks for my bank card. She never paid for anything I always paid even if it meant spending 3000 rand in a day or 10 000 in a week. On my birthday she chose a place and we went out I paid for the meal and even a boat ride that she planned.
Eventually I saw the need to move back to my parents due to my Parents becoming il and by than she had gotten used to visiting my parents, she would come stay for days sometimes a week with me at my parent house and got close to them and they saw how I loved her.
Another instance of he cheating behavior While visiting her grandparents the other part of her family (whom she was able to take me to visit with) one day I walked in to the kitchen and saw she chatting to another guy whom I got upset about on 3 different occasions she claimed he is just a friend as well. I so upset I intended to leave but I stayed quiet and dropped it again after she begged men not to get angry and she will quit talking to this guy who even would record videos of himself and send her. She promised to stop chatting to this guy and I believed her. I dropped her off at her house later that night.. Weeks went by and back to my parents place and this guy kept messaging her and I got upset and saw her on the phone she had been chatting to this same guy after she promised she would stop seeing how I felt and we spoke again and she blocked him. The week passed and she being at her house while on a call with her she mentions her female friend is calling her , so she asked to call me back but never did. In actual fact it was this guy who spent an hour on a call with her. When she came stayed over the next day and she left her phone in the room I saw a message came up from this guy and looking at the message times and calls seen that call time was in fact with him instead of her "female friend" we started arguing and she had previously got violent and dug my arm with her nails this time as my mother waked in bringing in my laundry sees her slapping me she grabbed my vest and pulled me so hard it tore which she done before tearing one of my t-shirts. I loved her so much that I actually forgave her four times for doing this in one month. My mother spoke to her while I left with embarrassment and hurt. We calmed down and we continued our relationship after my parents speaking to us. At the beginning of our relationship she insisted I delete my facebook account. I told her I don’t even use it much just the group called “market place” where I look to buy and sell things on example like my motorcycle. she even would go through my phone looking at all my messages.. I deleted my Facebook for her. She however would fight because I picked on her spending so much time on Instagram even while we on a call, Months later behind my back she goes and open a face book account and when I saw it I confronted her she blow up fighting with me saying she will delete it. I believed her and blindly trusted her. I cut out every friend from my life “male friends” people that I look up to and work along with” and times I walked out of meeting just for her cancelling important meeting that I had bigger opportunities for my career. I even canceled two opportunities which I had to go to the USA and even though I told her it will only be for few weeks she fought with me "saying if I go she would break up with me".
During her exam week she came lived with me for weeks and I would take her to her exams wait at Grayville mall and she would want things like new takkies or make up brushes or hair products that I would go buy for her. And when she’s done pick her up. When she finished her studies at the end of November and was looking for a job as a candidate attorney I used to call law firms and took her to drop her CV off at different places because of spending everyday with her if we was not doing that we would spend the whole day at the mall watching movies or the beach or doing some fun out door activity.. December 2019 one of her close friends gets her a job at his uncles law firm in JHB I had to take her to the interview .. January 2020 she got a call saying she got the job but he will tell her when to start. As the months progressed he would ask her to do some work and if she was at her house she would ask me to help her do research and I would and then send the work to her new boss. By this time She also quite the job at Umhlanga as an online tutor.
Just as she was asked to move up Lockdown began she couldn’t go straight away and now was here still in Durban. We talked every single day on the phone via whats app video call and times while im busy doing chores or tried to get back into my gym routine she would call and I would spend hours on the phone and not being able to get anything done. After locked levels moved and we was able to move around I would pick her and she would come stay with me for weeks and she was very forceful sexually. Her words hurt me every single time by saying to me “if you cant be sexual I will find a guy to do things with me especially when I move to JHB, and I have sexual needs” 0r "I need a guy who can go down on me" she would even say these things to me when she was at her house and would demand I speak sexually to her on the phone. I have all of these messages on my whatsapp still and never once spoken out of respect to her. I always showed great amount of love to her with morning messages and throughout the day even after spending hours on the phone still write a loving goodnight message to her.
I put up with all the verbal and physical abuse hid it all from my family due to the embarrassment. End of June 2020 she moved to JHB two days after moving there going to work and got home she asked me to call her I called her and spoke for 5 mints pulse she told me at 4:30 pm let her to make something to eat and she will message me when she’s done an hour passed and still waiting patiently for her.
I messaged knowing if I didn’t she would become very angry at her she messaged me back she did eat chips only and so I tried to call her she kept declining my calls saying she’s busy to stop bothering her. Five hours passed and not a reply to any of my messages being specious I googled her name only to see she reopened her face book account updating her information thereafter messaging her confronting her. she called me fighting with me I than became upset and was angry but wanted to know why she ignored me so many hours she blocked me and left me blocked till the next day she called me and said she doesn’t want a relationship with me anymore and told me her landlord who’s living with as her told her long distance relationship doesn’t work and her father who previously told her to break up with me told her to block me. Her father was never in her life she would even complain to me how he would pass her house and would never stop and speak to her. Months prior them reconciling l would encourage her to call him and speak to him to forgive him...
After listening to their so called advice and breaking up with me I tied to speak to her how much I care about her and I was sorry for getting upset but she refused to accept my apology. By than two days later she told me she wants to start dating other guys and telling me what what she want other guys to do with her sexually.
I reminded her of the second last night she before leaving how she cried on my bed asking me to promise her I would not leave her and I promised and asked her the very same question in return. She turns on me saying she met someone else it hurt me hearing those words like what she always would say to me. She blocked me again and didn’t speak to me for almost 3 weeks I was shattered. She would unblock me and send me messages saying "all what she said to me was a lie she never meant it". She even took pictures of her holding a guys hand and sent it to me. She done this before sending me pictures of her exs holding her when we fought and this time the picture was taken at her new place it really broke my heart. My parents knew something was wrong and she was close to my mother and my mother was sending her messages and she wasn’t event replying. My mother asked me what’s wrong and I told her she tried calling Aidriel and she would'nt answer the calls or messages. Eventually one morning my mother said Aidriel called her and told her we broken up. My mother said she tried talking to her and she said she will call her when she gets back from work but never did. My mother continued messaging her. She unblocked me messaging me saying I must quite using my mother’s phone which I never did and she blocked me again. I was at the shops one of the evenings when I received a call from her father saying that Aidriel told him I am harassing her. I began telling him everything because he never knew anything about our relationship due to him never being in her life much. He called her and asked her. Aidriel calls me and swears at me saying that I had no right telling her father about our relationship and that it is over between us. She told me few times during our fights while together if she leaves me she will and will come back 3 months or a year creating so much hope in me. The first two months passed and I could still believe that’s happening to me. I saw her Telkom bill and emailed it to her. she called me asking me to pay half. I said we need to talk about us and she cut the call..later that evening calling me again saying “if I love her I would not ask her to pay it. clearly this was her manipulation like usual, I told her I love her and care about her and want to work things out but she refused to listen again and blocked me. Two days later she unblocked me and asked to cancel the wifi contract which I said I cannot do since its only 10 months into the contract and I also have the same contract she told me she can’t pay for it. She went on to tell me she found someone else and sent me pictures of her holding another guys hand. Like she done before to me while dating sending me pictures of her ex bf holding her but this was her new apartment which I knew when she sent me photos of the place. and when I tried to remind her what she herself promised me before she left she said to me everything she said was a lie. We have dated ten months and it hurt me so badly. She told me if I try to contact her or her family she will get a restraining order against me.
Its been months and every single day I think about her at night I am unable to sleep. There are moments where I just break down and and become emotional. I am unable to do anything majority of the time. My birthday came and remembered from the previous year moments of us together she never called or messed Christmas and new year as well. The sad part is two months after us breaking up she came back to Durban and went out with a friend and another guy who posted a picture of them going out and at the beach she laying on this guy’s chest. She always loved taking pictures of us and always fought with me to post pictures of us on whats app and my profile picture must be of us. She even would record videos of us doing sexual things saying to me it is our own “Porn videos”. Whenever I would ask her to post pictures back in return she would fight with me
Now I think of all the times I have been abused and mistreated and how I was blinded by love. And I do recall her blocking another guy when we were first courting saying to another guy to take down her profile picture they are no longer dating but I focused on the positive and never let negative thoughts cross my mind.
People don’t need to go through so much pain and hurt by one who manipulates and cons people into believing that they love them back and chose to leave when its no longer convenient for them. During the ten months of dating she damaged my car twice once while visiting her uncle the gate closed on my car I so hurt by that she didn’t even offer to pay for the damage. I have spent all my savings and she even asked me to sell my motorcycle never wanting me to go riding. if I told her I want to go for a ride she would get so angry and block me for few hours. These are just some of the incidents that I have been through.
I even recall a time when she actually asked me if she can go out with other guys still wile we dating and this was just after her bragging about dating two guys at the same time.
Every message and conversation we ever had is all on my what’s app I was never the one to delete messages and photos I have every single photo we took and it roughly just over 8000 excluding the videos that she would record of us. At places and in private. I have never been so hurt and abused or financially abused in my entire life. Whenever we fought she always said she wants a guy with a BMW and this always hurt me as if I was never enough or spending enough. Its sad to know how one can do this to someone without any guilt and emotion. I know I should have known better. Especially all the things she admitted to me or the time when we first used to go out as friends she would post pictures of clothes that other guys buy for her. One instance while out sitting in a restaurant just before we started dating one guy kept phoning her and I saw she fighting with him over the phone telling him to take down her picture they no longer together. But I was never the one to judge her and she took advantage of my love and care for her. She used to go out with all these different guys all the time bought her things which she often bragged about to me and now when I do think about it. has if she wanted me to compete with these guys. Now she works for a law firm the last two times I tried connecting with her she threatens me thinking shes a lawyer which makes me laugh it took her 4 years to get that degree and it will only take me one year to obtain the same degree due to my Honors degree I have. I put her needs first and didn't continue what I set out to study further because her family kept saying she has her career ahead of her and didn't want any distractions but never knew what she was doing before meeting me. I had two opportunities to go to the USA which she said if I go she doesn’t want to be with me so I neglected those opportunities for her. I neglected so many opportunities all because I wanted her to achieve her dreams.
I could go on, there are more incidents that I left out due to it being to much to say. One day people will see her for what she is.
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